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It may be obvious in hindsight sight but going through it right now, I just dont get it?! Not just men but women too why cant people be direct? Why play games does it really feel good to hurt people?
Short version is talked to the guy for several months. Contact became less overtime which is fine, we initially talked about hooking up but became more a pen pal thing, hes cool and we have common interest.
Eventually he sent me a snap with a chick, when I playfully called it out he got a bit defensive, said she was his room mate and he was not attracted to her. A little frustrated I stepped away, then a few weeks later reached out and he accepted my friend request on socials and mostly taken several hours to reply and kept it dry, wirh a hi there. which wasn't normal for us. Here I am feeling a little guilty because I been acting a little unstable and kind of a hot and cold. There was no indication of a relationship on his profile, then I saw him tagged in a photo with his "roomate" and it suggested more. If that were the case why cant some people just say hey im in a relationship now respect it or f'off! Why play these games? The answer may be obvious but my egos a little hurt! And he was a friend? 😅
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