I'm a crossdresser/femme-presenting man and pinned a picture of myself and made a joke about how my chest hair was still visible. A completely random person identifying as a drag queen DM'd me just telling me to shave it. I told them I didn't want to, because I like having a more androgynous appearance compared to most other crossdressers who want to be completely feminine, and they started telling me about THEIR preference and how THEY shaved every inch of their body to be as feminine as possible. So exhausting that even in drag queen/crossdressing communities, we have to deal with people being harassed into looking "womanly enough".