Is it normal these days when a guy wants to see where things go or does it mean he isn't attracted enough to commit? If its normal, why ppl don't want to commit or be exclusive early on?
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How long have you been dating and talking? You need to provide more context.
1 month and I kinda hinted to him that i don't want anything physical before marriage.
That's what's you say when you're not taking it seriously. People who actually want a relationship make that their goal, and they don't give wishy-washy answers.
Yeah, and if people want to see where something goes and/or taking it slow and are serious about it people can easily take the commitment of dating them exclusively.
Normal, but it means they want something to do while time passes by. It’s not a red flag if you’re also looking to waste your time.
"while time passes by" - until what happens??
"See where things go" is generally code for "she's a hookup girl but I don't want to be mean about it."