I believe you need to make a work alias and stick to it. Some people even make associated social media for those men that try to find you.
I never thought of this but it's a great idea. There's alot of weird social media stalking, it's like they almost feel proud to tell you something they found out about your personal life. Thanks, I'm going to do this.
I have some friends that all work together and most of them use a work alias because some men don't take hints very well. Very few customers that go to the store ever know their real names. Sometimes though, they don't even want the customers to know their work alias either, so they make up another name on the spot and it can be kind of amusing since English is their second language and they aren't too familiar with American names.