u need a remote job definitely, Indonesia's jobs aren't good enough to survive like that. You could also just save enough money, travel there, marry her and then bring her back with u to your country. That sounds like the best option, that's what I did, worked excellently
I have enough money saved to get married to her i just wanna move there and live with her because Indonesia is so much more beautiful and better for living and cheaper compared to Iraq and the people are so much nicer especially with foreigner. Those are some of the reasons why I go through the hastle of tiring myself and putting a lot of weight on my shoulders.
I appreciate you taking the time and writing a beautiful and positive commend which is hard to come by these days