So me and my girlfriend have been together for almost two years, with the last one being LDR, and before that we knew each other for almost half our school life. Now, as she's not really feeling good with what's been going on with her, she says it's nothing to do with me — not because she's upset from me — but she feels like she doesn't want to be in a relationship. I told her, "Sure, take time, go offline, focus on yourself," and so on. But I don't think we should split. I'll be fine if you don't text me for months while we're together, but I can't handle us not being together. And of course, I don't want to force her. I told her, "Whatever you'll say, I respect that." After some more talk, I got it down to talking it out tomorrow morning on a call.
I am really scared to death right now. I don't know what to do. I know you guys will say it's a young age for me and I have a lot of life left, I know that, but I did whatever I could to be as green (I think you mean something like "good" or "genuine" here — want me to fix that word?) for her as possible. I just wanted to marry her, just wanted to share it. What should I really do, guys?
(Just to lighten myself up — why tf am I becoming Peter Parker 😭)
TLDR: about to break up, I am really scared.
Just the phrase "we don't interact in any way but she's still my girlfriend" won't keep ya warm at night kiddo. It's better to break up. It'll suck for awhile, but like everything else, it chills out over time.
What will I do alone she was the one who changed me from an introvert to an extrovert she is the only one I have in terms of speaking my feelings to I can't speak to my mum and dad and have no one else
What should I do mate
People will come and go in your life, and the vast, vast majority of your relationships will end. Try to come to terms with the fact that ending doesn't mean a relationship wasn't good, wasn't valuable, wasn't worth it. Try to appreciate each relationship and each person for what they brought to your life. This one sounds like it was pretty good for both of you, and it might be time for it to end naturally. That's still a successful relationship. Best of luck in the future, whatever happens. And don't forget to remove the notes from the AI before you post the translation it gave you ;)
Which note did I leave there from ai 😭 the previous post was removed cuz of no punctuations so I used it to punctuate
Just dont hurt your mind because you promised yourself you would marry her, at such a young age you have a whole life to enjoy, be strong, you are
I don't mean to be ajerk but I don't like to hop on different relationship