Ive gotten tihs sort of stuff told to me: I have "nonstop negativity and attention seeking. This is not your emotional support group. You post constantly for sympathy and express a sense of entitlement that because you “work hard” that you “earn talent” and deserve a career. You’re abusing the community’s time."
How do I fix this asap?
Honestly the fact that someone gave you that feedback is kinda the fix itself. Most people never get told directly what they're doing wrong.
But Im not fixed I dont understand what makes me evil
That feedback is rare gift, most just get silently blocked or ignored instead
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They said you're being negative, attention-seeking, and entitled, so reflect on that. What is you're doing that could be seen that way, and how can you work on that? When you enter a community, start by taking some time to read the room and see how other people are behaving. Don't barge in and immediately start posting emotional stuff while everyone else is looking for practical advice. Obviously you're your own person and don't have to conform exactly, but you should get a rough idea of what's expected and try to follow that. Don't make multiple posts about the same issue in a short space of time. If you get good advice the first time, then really think about it and apply it. Then if you still have questions, you can frame it like "Here's what I've already tried. This is what helped. This is what I'm still struggling with." People are wayyy more willing to help when they can see you're ready to listen and put in the work. Give back at least as much as you take. Be encouraging towards other people. Being part of any community goes both ways. They're not your personal cheerleading team or therapist. Remember that everyone is going through shit. Your problems are not unique. Finally, take it with a grain of salt. Some communities are cliquey and unwelcoming. Some mods are on a power trip. Maybe it's simply not the right community for you.
I’m trying to reflect by saying “how can I get these feelings to go away so I can become the discipline hero”