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Not sure where to start?
I am confused.
Been in with my partner for 18 years, 33 f and 34 m y/o.
2 beautiful daughters 18, 14.
Obviously as one would expect after so long together kids, work and life in general.......sex, and sexual stuff things gets either put to side or just repeated actions
Recently we have been trying to spice things up and come together again which has been great and been good.
Well he went to a strip bar with his friend.
He came home told me said he set boundaries and was just having fun with friends.
He then went out with friends again and ended up at strip bars again. Came home told me all good.
But
I initially had a conversation about this topic only few months back.
I said i would be comfortable if we did together and we had boundaries and we spoke about it in depth.
We were going to try find a weekend no kids no work and go city, hotel dinner, you know the works.
We were going to go together first time. Then he went and did this twice and makes me feel bad like 'i wasnt goung to say no and come home like a loser' ' boys think im whipped'
I am nothing like that, i just have boundaries, fair? I thought so too.
Nowwwwww the kickerrr HE IS ALWAYS ASKING TO SO STRIP CLUBS NOW WITH MATES !!
im not okay with this and he knows.
Am i being an asshole not letting him go?? I feel bad when his like she said no. But like weve gone 17 years without ever needing to go? Umm
I know men like to go, but its weird new behaviour.
Also another thing, i think he is a porn addict. Next story through.....
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