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r/IWantOut · u/Short_Context_44321 Ağu 2026 13:53

[IWantOut] 30M Mechanical Engineer Fin -> Swe

Hi everyone,

I'm a Finnish guy with Southeast Asian origin currently mapping out my long-term future, and Sweden is at the top of my list for a stable, peaceful life. I’d love some candid, real-world feedback from locals or expats on whether my profile is realistic for the Swedish market.

Here’s my situation:

Education: BASc in Mechanical Engineering (study duration is 4 years)
Career Gap: I have a ~6-year gap in traditional engineering. Reason: Job market in Finland is just bloody hard. I work different jobs though, there has not been unemployed period.
Languages: Fluent English, B2 Swedish. By the time I arrive, the skill would be C1, so no problem on language part.
Work Rights: EU Citizen (no visa or sponsorship needed for Swedish employers).

My long-term goal: I’m looking to settle down, work in engineering (open to entry/bridging roles like CAD/BIM modeling, Quality/Validation, Operations, or Facilities), buy a modest home, and eventually build a family.

I’d really appreciate your honest take on two things:

Job Market Reality: How big of a red flag is a 6-year engineering gap in Sweden?
Social Integration & Dating: As someone of Southeastern Asian background who is genuinely dedicated to learning the language and integrating, how doable is it to build a real social circle and find a partner for a quiet life in Sweden?

Any brutally honest advice, reality checks, or tips on how to position myself would be greatly appreciated.

Tack in advance!

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u/AutoModerator11 Ağu 2026 13:53
Post by Short_Context_4432 -- Hi everyone,

I'm a Finnish guy with Southeast Asian origin currently mapping out my long-term future, and Sweden is at the top of my list for a stable, peaceful life. I’d love some candid, real-world feedback from locals or expats on whether my profile is realistic for the Swedish market.

Here’s my situation:

Education: BASc in Mechanical Engineering (study duration is 4 years)

Career Gap: I have a ~6-year gap in traditional engineering. Reason: Job market in Finland is just bloody hard. I work different jobs though, there has not been unemployed period.

Languages: Fluent English, B2 Swedish. By the time I arrive, the skill would be C1, so no problem on language part.

Work Rights: EU Citizen (no visa or sponsorship needed for Swedish employers).

My long-term goal: I’m looking to settle down, work in engineering (open to entry/bridging roles like CAD/BIM modeling, Quality/Validation, Operations, or Facilities), buy a modest home, and eventually build a family.

I’d really appreciate your honest take on two things:

Job Market Reality: How big of a red flag is a 6-year engineering gap in Sweden?

Social Integration & Dating: As someone of Southeastern Asian background who is genuinely dedicated to learning the language and integrating, how doable is it to build a real social circle and find a partner for a quiet life in Sweden?

Any brutally honest advice, reality checks, or tips on how to position myself would be greatly appreciated.

Tack in advance!

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u/Ferdawoon11 Ağu 2026 14:07

Career Gap: I have a ~6-year gap in traditional engineering. Reason: Job market in Finland is just bloody hard. I work different jobs though, there has not been unemployed period.

Sweden's unemployment is quite bad as well. currently at 9.9% so it is just marginally better than finland. If you struggled so hard to get a job in Finland I don't think you will have a much easier time in Sweden, especially with an 6 year gap.
- u/Short_Context_443211 Ağu 2026 14:17
  Hi, thanks for the insight! The language might be one of the main reasons why I struggled in Finland even though people speak excellent English over here. There have been entry-leveled jobs that require only English but I do feel like there's hidden policy or simply mentality of hiring only the natives first. Finnish employers aren't open-minded, at least the ones I have been applying to. Now that I could speak a language at decent level in a country I would like to live in, wondered if my luck would change?
  - u/Ferdawoon11 Ağu 2026 14:25
u/Atermoyer11 Ağu 2026 15:28
Same question as the last time you posted this, do you speak Finnish?
- u/Short_Context_443211 Ağu 2026 15:36
  A few years ago just right after graduation when expectation to secure a stable position in the society was high, I could talk to people. I decided to study Swedish for this reason, I simply don't see myself having a chance to survive here anymore. There are people who live just fine on social welfare and don't work at all, but this is not why I come to Europe.
  - u/notacheapyardsale211 Ağu 2026 15:541 yanıt